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The most influential person in my life has been:

My very sweet loving son... Ed Vincent always there for me through the ups and downs that life may sometimes bring...He is my confidant, the real meaning of my life...my best friend and Im so proud of my loving son...:)

My best life-skills are:

•Being a good friend and companion

•Finding pleasure and contentment in simple things

•Communicating my innermost thoughts and feelings

•Continuing to expand my knowledge and awareness

•Cooking for my family and friends

•Making new friends.

All through my life I learn not to live with "EXPECTATIONS" but to live with "ACCEPTANCE"

I described best as "USUALLY TAKING CARE OF OTHERS" because I'm •Understanding •Unquestioning •Humane •Selfless •Gentle

•Kindhearted •Gullible •Indulgent. I have a tender heart. Yes, I know that others need to learn to take care of themselves and I know they need to accept the consequences of their foolish or bad behavior. And sometimes, even if my instinct is to help them, I will let them fend for themselves and let them suffer the consequences of their choices or circumstances. But most of the time I'm always there to help when they need me. If they are in trouble, I offer compassion and go out of my way to be helpful. If they need someone who will listen, I am trustworthy and sympathetic. And I'm direct with them; when they need advice or counsel, I offer it in a straightforward, direct manner, without beating around the bush. I'm also smart enough to know that I cannot take good care of others if I fail to take good care of myself, so I listen to my own wants and needs. If I run out of sympathetic energy, I spend time restoring myself. If I've ignored my own pain or frustration, I find a friend who will listen well, or go into my own private healing place and give myself permission to focus on me. But before long, I back at it with my friends, offering a sympathetic ear and compassion on which they learn to trust, also giving straightforward advice and counsel when they ask for it. I do know how to take care of myself, but my genuine interest is in taking care of others.

On the Openness Dimension I'm " SOMETIMES CURIOUS, SOMETIMES CONTENT "

In such a way that I'm •Accepting •Flexible •Educated •Self-aware

•Middle-of-the-road •Proper •Distinctive •Indecisive •Adaptable Like someone who can sleep comfortably on either side of the bed, I'm equally at home with ideas and beliefs that I have held for a long time and with new ways of thinking and believing that grow out of my intellectual curiosity. My sense of who am I and what my place is in the world around me rests on values and principles that are the solid ground I walk upon. I've tested them, they work for me, and much of the time I am content to trust them, that is, until some provocative new idea slips in from a conversation, book or some flight of my active imagination. "Hmmmm. What's this. Never thought of it before." And off I go, exploring. Since I love to learn, I've always been teachable; I absorb new information, which means I'm well-educated in things that matter to me. Sometimes my intellectual exploring will lead me back to where I started; the "next new thing" proves too shallow or impractical to me. But once in a while a new idea or belief will dislodge me from the ground I've stood upon; it is so compelling and persuasive that I step away from the tried-and-true and embrace this notion that is brand new to me. Because I hold both solid beliefs and I'm open to new ideas, I am accepting of other people and other ways of thinking and believing. I'm flexible enough to listen to something new and different, or something outside of my comfort zone; if it works for me, I'll take it in, and if not, I'll let it go. In this sense, I know who am I: I'm neither closed-minded nor wildly open-minded, but walk somewhere near the middle of the intellectual road.

On Emotional Stability I'm "SOMETIMES STEADY, SOMETIMES RESPONSIVE" because I'm •Adaptable •Engaged •Able to Cope •Passionate •Perceptive •Flexible

•Receptive •Aware •Avid. In some ways, I've got the best of emotional worlds. When emotions rise up from inside me or are brought forth from a conversation by a friend, I know how to engage them. I deal with sadness, fear, joy,

anger - whatever comes up - in ways that are perceptive and flexible. I can adapt to whatever level of emotion is appropriate to the moment. At other times, I am able to cope with my emotions in a more reserved manner. Because I am aware of what does and does not make emotional sense in a particular situation, I will decide when it is an appropriate time to express my emotions and when it would be best to keep them to myself. All of this gives me a rich emotional life. I am free to express my passions about certain subjects with appropriate people. But I am also emotionally adaptable; if the conversation needs to be more cerebral, I'll keep it "in my head" and talk calmly through whatever issue is on the table. This emotional awareness serves me well. I seldom get in over my head, either by opening up to the wrong person or by triggering in someone else's emotions they may not be able to deal with.

When it comes to my "Conscientiousness" my approach toward my obligation is "FOCUSED and FLEXIBLE" I'm •Casual •Informal •Compliant •Reliable •Organized •Solid •Dependable

•Uncommitted •Genuine.

Here is a general description of how I interact with others.

When I take on a task at work or at home, I'm reliable; I get the job done. In an organized way, I define the goal, lay out a plan, figure how long the task will take, and get to work "solid and dependable me".

But and this is important I'm not a slave to the plan. I'm committed to it, but not chained to it; the connection is more casual and informal. I know that sometimes "the best laid plans" fall off the tracks; when this happens, I clean up the train wreck and start over, undeterred.

Though not happening often, when plans change, I'm okay with it. In fact, sometimes I change the plan. It's too nice of a Saturday to finish organizing the garage. Let's go for a bike ride instead. True, the next rainy Saturday will likely find me back in the garage, but for now the work can wait.

What an interesting combination of qualities in:) I am organized but casual;

solid, but compliant; and dependable, but informal. At home and at work, people know they can rely on me. I take great satisfaction in knowing that people think of me as disciplined and responsible, but I also know that I have something of a free spirit in me, and when this spirit moves me, off I go, following the impulse of the moment. I'm rightly proud of my work ethic, but I also enjoy my willingness to lay the tools down, crank up the music and play like a child...:))

Lastly my personality when it comes to "Extaversion" I'm "OUTGOING" my friends describe me as •Friendly •Gregarious •Full of Life •Unreserved •Kindhearted

•Talkative •Emotional •Spontaneous •Vigorous.

People light me up. In conversations, planning meetings or almost any social situation, I bring my energy and my friendly, outgoing personality into these engagements with other people, and I come away pumped up. I can hardly wait for the next event, as long as other people will be there. And I'm good at it.

I know how to communicate. I listen well, the first rule of good communication, and then, when it's my turn, I talk vigorously and with animation; in my uninhibited way I give all that I've got to the encounter.

In situations where I feel very safe, when I know and trust the people I'm with, I can be very kindhearted and unrestrained. I let my affection for and pleasure in being with others flow freely. I'm wide open And when I get back this same kind of unrestrained warmth, I am deeply satisfied. Because I'm so friendly and full of life, these are among my favorite moments.:)

~~~```It's funny how FAKE SMILE CAN BE...and no one would notice the pain that lies beneath it all.```~~~

" It is better to be with no one than to be with the wrong one."

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Only My Good True Friends know whats the real meaning of it...:)

^^<<<(((*~~~~~~~~~~``````````God Bless Us All``````````~~~~~~~~~~*)))>>>^^

*******************************"ALL ABOUT FIRE SNAKE"************************************

***********************The SNAKE … THE TANTALIZING SNAKE**************************

The intelligent Snake calculates outcomes ahead of time. Snakes are born organizers and know well how to use their talents of discretion, discernment and intuition. Kind and considerate, they remain quiet in company. But under this silent demeanor can be a stubborn and suspicious person that doesn't like pain or failure. The Snake has the ability to see beyond appearances to something deeper. Using these talents, the Snake is capable of creating his own reality practically and gracefully.

Lovely and charming, Snakes will be at their best when you connect with them in the same way -- with grace and charm. But never attack them because they won't easily forget it … and may react one day when you least expect it. They can predict the future, as they are able to feel what is approaching more than any other sign. When they understand that a project will benefit them, they will pour all of their effort into it. Often the philosopher, the Snake can also be the biggest party animal when in high spirits. Surprising and romantic, they can erase all problems with their wisdom.

*******************************Love for the Snake Woman************************************

This woman is full of ideas about how to win a prospective partner's interest. She becomes the ideal woman in order to get her partner hooked -- in fact, she will try anything. The best partner for a Snake woman is someone who is happy to share his/her love and fortune with her and at the same time allow her the freedom to explore life fully. If you are in a relationship with a Snake woman, you are her possession. Her devotion to you and to your children will be unlimited, as long as you are not making her jealous in some way. Be very faithful if you want to keep your Snake gal happy!

************************************Brief Description******************************************

Snakes are wise, romantic, deep thinkers heavily guided by their intuition. They do not trust others easily and have trouble accepting criticism.

******************************************Positive Traits*****************************************

-------- amiable, compromising, fun-loving, altruistic, honourable, sympathetic, philosophical, charitable, a paragon of fashion, intuitive, discreet, diplomatic, amusing and sexy

*****************************General Description of All Snakes *****************************

The Snake is the intuitive, introspective, refined and collected of the Animal Signs. They are attractive people who take cries with ease and do not become flustered easily. They are graceful people, exciting and dark at the same time.

Contemplative and private, the Snake is not outwardly emotional. He can appear cunning and reticent and works very modestly in the business environment. The Snake will plot and scheme to make certain things turn out exactly as they want them to. They are not great communicators and can become quite possessive when they set their minds on achieving the interest of a partner.

************************** Detailed Description of The Fire Snake *********************

Fire Snakes can be a bit loud, speaking their minds and smothering you with their opinions. This does add a twist to his dynamic and vibrant character, as he is quite the extrovert. These Snakes have a great wisdom. They are intriguing communicators who leave you breathless after a conversation. Fire Snakes can change even the most obstinate mind with their powers of persuasion, convincing you their opinions or ideas are better than yours. This does make them a little self-centered, but you can't say they aren't driven for success.

Diplomatic and popular, the Snake has the sensual art of seduction down. This Sign is an interesting mix of gregariousness paired with introversion, intuitive reasoning paired with savvy business skills. Snakes are considered to be lucky with money and will generally have more than enough to live life to the fullest, regardless of how important it considers money to be; this may be due to the fact that Snakes tend to be rather tight with cash. They're not stingy, they're simply more mentally than physically active. Snakes tend to hang back a bit in order to analyze a situation before jumping into it. Their charming, seductive quality actually belies a rather retiring nature; this Sign is perfectly happy to spend the whole day curled up with a good book and, thus, can be mislabeled as being lazy.

The Snake is somewhat insecure deep down and tend to be a rather jealous, possessive lover, behavior that can end up alienating loved ones. Despite these less-than-stellar tendencies, however, the Snake often proves irresistible and is a generous, loving partner. Slightly dangerous and disarmingly smart, the Snake's philosophical and intuitive mind generally supersedes logic in favor of feelings and instinct. Snakes will rely on their own gut reactions and intuitions before turning to others for suggestions. This makes this Sign a great hand in any business venture, possessing the caution and smarts needed to get ahead.

Snakes are hard workers (when they see good reason to be!) and are possessed of a keen intelligence. Snakes have incredible follow-through, once they get going, and they expect the same from others. Thus, their coworkers and employees had best stay on their toes, lest they anger the Snake and suffer its poisonous bite!

In general, of course, Snakes are generous and genteel, charming and appealing. Snakes must try to learn humility and to develop a stronger sense of self. Once Snakes realize that confidence comes from within, they will finally be comfortable in their own skin.

******** Those of you born under the influence of the Chinese Element Fire **********

burn through life with your fierce charm, your impulsive enthusiasm and your restless emotions. A natural leader, you inspire with your decisive action and dramatic expression; people can't help but be magnetically drawn to you. Where will you lead your followers? Likely into an exciting adventure of some sort. You're instinctual, but your mind sparks with new ideas and clever solutions. In love, you're highly-charged -- even combustible at times! Hot tamales to the core, these dynamic individuals can see straight to the heart of an issue and make it work for them. You may seem single-minded, but you just refuse to be swayed from a cause they believe to be important.

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Rams live life head first; after all, those horns on your head are not just for fighting. Your headstrong nature can make you a "battering ram" and woe is the person who stands in your way.

You Rams are noted for your courage and leadership qualities, primarily because you are nearly always ready for action. The need for excitement pushes you into new territory -- and as long as you are ahead of others while demonstrating confidence, chances are that they will follow you. As self-ordained leader of the pack, you fight for what you believe to be important. But it's not that you are fearless. Your courage is "more of a commitment to face your fears and overcome them."

Your motto is "Ready, fire, aim!" It may be backwards for others, but you'd rather figure out what to do while you are doing it. Impulsive actions, however, can bring you your share of trouble. While others are gathering information to make informed decisions, you are already on your way. As such, you could suffer from false starts. In fact, you Aries are so good at starting things that you can be off onto your next project before completing the previous one. As you Rams mature, you learn to slow down your reaction time in order to think about the consequences of your actions.

*****************************************Element: Fire*******************************************

Fire signs are naturally warm. A fire gives light and heat, but it doesn't get depleted as others feed on its warmth. One candle can bring light to a room and it won't burn any faster if ten people read from its light than if there was only one. Fire doesn't plan it next move; it isn't logical. It simply is in the moment and will burn what fuel is available without judgment or forethought. For this reason fire signs can successfully rely on their intuition and survival instincts.

The fire of Aries is spontaneous and hot. It's like a pile of dry kindling that burns fast but cannot sustain itself for the long haul.

******************************************House: First ******************************************

The First House symbolizes our physical body and our personality -- how we appear to the outer world. It's not necessarily who we are; it's what we bring to a situation and how others see us. It represents our childhood, the beginning of any activity or even the start of a new relationship. It's not, however, about the other person; it's about how others see us. No doubt, everything starts with the First House.

****************************************Key Planet: Mars***************************************

Mars is called the "Angry Red Planet." In Greek mythology, Mars was the God of War. But Mars isn't only about fighting; it's about going somewhere, going anywhere. If someone is in our path, then, perhaps we must fight with them in order to keep going. Mars is like the gas pedal of our bodies. It's represents how we move forward in life. In any chart, Mars offers clues as to how we express our basic energy. As the key planet of Aries, it reminds us to "just do it."

***************************************Greatest Strength:**************************************

" My courage to overcome fear ! "

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