Poor us. Fellas, if you're interested in a woman, don't flirt with another woman and don't flirt online either because we WILL find out. You guys keep 1-3 women on the side "just in case" and that's messin' up the whole Black community. All of us (males & females) are crazy because "everybody's doin' it" is the song everybody sings. Well I ain't doin' it. I don't keep a man on the side. If I'm interested in a man, then that's who I'm givin' my attention to until he or I say "no thank you". We females can tell when your eyes are roaming (or your mind, or your focus, or heart, or your body) even if we don't say anything. Eventually we'll show how we feel seemingly "out of the blue". You always act like we're crazy for "acting up" and by that time we have let the mess go on for so long that we can't even talk about it, so we just react to the pinned-up feelings that are a result of your "innocent" attention to some other female. Black men...yall are messin' up our entire community SO bad & you don't even give a care. It's sad & all our dirty laundry is hangin out there for all the other races to see (and smell). Poor us.

Gentlemen, you MUST make love to a woman's mind before our body, or the physical won't work. That's why we like/love FOREPLAY & hugging/cuddling, talking. Gettin' right down to it is for pros & the young (that are ALWAYS in a hurry to get somewhere). If you don't affect my mind the 1st time, i'll give u a 2nd chance to get inside my head. Every now & then give us sweet talk, flowers, dinner, movie. Say you don't have much money? Okay, then take me to the beach, the park, a drive up the coast & a hamburger, whatever, to get inside my head and DON'T girl-watch while you're with me (if you can help it). Don't take it personal if I don't scream & call out your name the 1st time. I (Leigh) simply don't work that way. If you get inside my head & affect my heart before the 1st time we're together, I WILL scream & call out your name the 1st time & every time after that. It is what it is. Men & women. Ying & yang. Venus & Mars. Learn it, then do it & we'll forever be grateful.

Oscar Grant, Black male, 22 yrs old. Murdered/shot in the back by Oakland Transit police officer, Johannes Mehserle, on New Year's Eve, 12/31/08, while lying on the ground, face-down, hands cuffed behind his back. Police said it was "an accident". Mehserle fled to Nevada. He was arrested there on 1/14/09. ONE YEAR LATER: The Transit system agreed to a $1.5 million settlement to Grant's daughter. The lawyer originally asked for $50 million. The criminal case against the officer is still pending.

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